7 Marriage Tips to Guide You on the Right Path

Marriage can be a challenging but incredibly rewarding relationship. I personally enjoy being married and believe that it is part of my administration here on earth.

Prayer and seeking the Lord is our sanctuary and after thirty-three years of marriage, Derick and I realize that there are a few things every couple can implement into their marriage. We understand that not all married couples have a foundation in the word of God and need pointers to help guide them.

Here are a few fundamentals for how to make better choices and flourish in marriage:

1. Pray Together Every Day ♥

Prayer is an important part of a Christian’s relationship with God, and it is a powerful tool in marriage. Set aside time each day to pray together as husband and wife. This helps you stay connected to each other and to God. Talk to the Lord, He knows what You have need of.

2. Read the Bible Together ♥

The Bible is the inspired word of God and contains many verses that are relevant to marriage. Take some time to read and discuss passages together. This can help you understand and apply God’s Word to your relationship and everyday life.

Also, invest in biblically-based books on marriage that you and your spouse can read together.

3. Communicate ♥

Communicate openly, honestly and often with your spouse. Discuss everything. Your faith, money, intimacy, kids, and family. This means not only sharing your thoughts and feelings but also listening earnestly to what your spouse has to say. Make an effort to understand their perspective, even if you don’t necessarily agree with it.

4. Show Appreciation and Gratitude ♥

Show appreciation and gratitude towards your partner. Take the time to recognize and appreciate the small things they do for you, and express your gratitude regularly.

5. Practice Forgiveness ♥

No one is perfect, and there will inevitably be times when your partner disappoints or upsets you. It’s important to be able to forgive and move on, rather than dwelling on negative thoughts and feelings.

6. Make Time for Each Other ♥

It’s easy to get caught up in the demands of life, but it’s important to dedicate time for just the two of you. This could be as simple as having dinner together or taking a weekend getaway. Or start a hobby that the two of you can enjoy.

Connect with other husbands and wives that have a strong relationship. Fellowship with other couples that are strong in the faith is fun and rewarding.

7. Seek Help When Needed ♥

It’s normal for couples to experience challenges and conflicts, and it’s important to remember that it’s okay to seek outside help, whether it be through marriage counseling, therapy, or other resources.

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Closing Tip 🎯

Of course, this list is not all-inclusive but by following these fundamentals and making an effort to nurture your relationship, you can build a strong and successful marriage.

Remember to always focus on the Kingdom of God and make your spouse a priority and never stop striving to be the best partner you can be.

Derick and I are grateful for our friendship as husband and wife and the friends that the Lord has connected us with. We are blessed to know other couples that have been married just as long as we have and still find enjoyment with their spouse!

If you have not done so, for a more in-depth and deeper relationship, invite God into your marriage and allow Him to help you to build a marriage in His image.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

9 Two are better than one,
    because they have a good return for their labor:
10 If either of them falls down,
    one can help the other up.
    But pity anyone who falls
    and has no one to help them up.
11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm.
     But how can one keep warm alone?
12 Though one may be overpowered,
    two can defend themselves.
    A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

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